Bijou Wear’s Decadence lives up to its name! I am already a huge fan of Bijou Wear since I have really loved wrapping with their hefty Eco2cotton and low Tencel blends. Bijou Wear is a company that is conscious of inclusivity, and they offer most of their woven wraps and ring slings in longer lengths that make their products accessible to babywearers of all sizes. I’d heard many good things about Decadence as it has been traveling around the babywearing world, so when I was offered the opportunity to try it because it “fits my preferred wrap qualities” I was thrilled! Yes, it definitely does fit my preferred wrap qualities (WQs). In case you are unfamiliar with my preferred WQs, here they are: thick, cushy, thick, blankety, thick, toddler appropriate, and thick. But really, Decadence is more nuanced than that, please continue reading…
I received Decadence in the “Premiere” colorway, which is a black warp with lemon-lime-gold wefts that appear to change color depending on the light. I am a huge fan of black warps and monochrome everything right now, and the Premiere colorway goes well with the standard NYCBlack that we all don for winter, while adding an exciting bit of color to a otherwise dreary season.
Our first carry with Decadence Premiere was Wendy’s Double Hammock with a Candy Cane Chest Belt (Wendy’s DH CCCB), which is my favorite go-to back carry at the moment because it has a chest pass for extra support, two leg passes for a bouncy/leg straightening wrappee, and a candy cane chest belt (CCCB) to keep the ruck straps comfortably on my shoulders. As the weather has changed into to the cooler part of Autumn and the beginning of Winter, LittlerHill and I have begun to navigate wrapping on the outside of our winter clothes this year. I will cover what we have figured out with regards to winter babywearing in another post, but I want to say here that Decadence Premiere was very forgiving and patient with me while I took my time wrapping (LittlerHill was less so).
What made Decadence Premiere so patient was its texture – it is textured all over, but it does not have the same texture all over. Instead, each section of the pattern has a slightly different texture – it is smoother on the yellow areas and rougher on the black areas. I think that the texture differences are noticeable due to the large scale of the diamond-shaped geometric pattern. It is pretty cool and unique to be differently-textured throughout the pattern, and it makes Decadence Premiere not like any wraps I have wrapped with before. Decadence Premiere’s interesting texture made it super easy to slide my passes into place, and then held them there while I worked on tightening. Its ability to stay put means my Wendy’s DH CCCB was wrapped excellently (for a change!) and therefore it was super comfortable. LittlerHill even remarked, “this wrap is comfortable!” while we walked to preschool – there is no better endorsement than one from a picky toddler!
Decadence Premiere has little-to-no horizontal stretch, but has a good amount of diagonal stretch. This means that it has zero sag with a heavy wrappee, and can make a beautifully tight chest pass. LittlerHill felt super light on my shoulders, and I would have been happy to carry him in our Wendy’s DH CCCB for hours – I think any multilayer carry would have felt just as comfortable. Decadence Premiere is pretty thick, as I mentioned above, due to a double weft that gives it a nice cush for picky shoulders and makes it a perfect fall/winter wrap. Decadence Premiere also has a nice drapey feeling in-hand that makes its thickness feel manageable and not at all overwhelming.
I was intrigued with how Decadence Premiere felt so solid but also had beautiful diagonal stretch, so I wanted to try it in some single layer carries. We wrapped Decadence Premiere in Ruck tied Tibetan (Ruck TT) and in a Ruck tied in front (Ruck TIF), and as I suspected, Decadence Premiere shines in both multilayer and single-layer carries with my huge wrappee. LittlerHill didn’t budge at all, and all of the passes stayed in place even with the combination of a slippery coat and a bouncing wrappee. As amazingly comfortable and easy to wrap as Decadence Premiere was in Wendy’s DH, I ended up defaulting to various Ruck variations even with the super long tails, so I think I would pleased with Decadence Premiere in any size!
Summary
I think Decadence Premiere shines in any size – shorter for single-layer carries, and base or longer sizes for multilayer carries – and would be excellent with an infant through preschooler wrappee. Decadence Premiere is definitely on the thicker side and may be a lot to handle as a caregiver’s first wrap in a base/longer size, but I would otherwise recommend it to any wrapper and any sized wrappee, or to a newer wrapper in a shorter size if they were not yet used to handling the fabric. The Premiere colorway, lemon-lime-gold and black, is gorgeous for fall, goes well with neutrals, and gives the perfect pop of color without being overwhelming. Decadence Premiere would make a great first wrap for someone starting back carries, since the passes glide over each other easily but stay in place while the wrapper is tightening.
THE STATS
weaver: Bijou Wear
weave: double weft jacquard weave
size: 7 (5.2 m)
soft tape in hand (STIH): 5.32 m
width: 26″
blend: 100% Egyptian cotton
wrappee: 32 lbs toddler
carries tried: Wendy’s Double Hammock with Candy Cane Chest Belt (Wendy’s DH CCCB), Ruck tied in front (Ruck TIF), Ruck tied Tibetan (Ruck TT)
wrap qualities (WQs): cushy, thick, medium density, textured, dry, good balance of glide/grip, moldable, supportive, solid, good diagonal stretch but otherwise not stretchy, toddler worthy, no sag, no dig, medium-to-heavy weight